But what happens when it does change overnight? How do we make sense of the world when it is unrecognisable from a week ago and the Government is taking steps that haven’t been enacted since the last World War?
We don’t have the answers. We are going to have to take it hour by hour, day by day and see what the world looks like.
It’s hard to think of another time in anyone’s life time when there was a global event that would impact EVERYONE. Yes there have been wars, natural disasters, human disasters but the current situation is having such a significant global impact. The world as we know it is never going to be the same again, but how do we cope with this uncertainty and how do we look after ourselves and each other?
It sounds very similar to the way that grief is described; there are different stages and people will move through them (sometimes forward, sometimes back) at different times.
We experience change and grief in physical, mental, emotional, social and spiritual ways. Most people will have thought they had a plan or an idea of what the next few days or weeks or months looked like. We assumed we had an idea about what tomorrow looks like and it turns out we had no idea. Some people will cope differently to others.
The brain often responds to uncertainty with fear and fear can inhibit decision making. People who can spot this fear are often able to contain it before it gets out of control. This allows them then to focus on the information they do have more rationally.
When stress and uncertainty increase, negative thoughts can be harder to ignore and it can be more difficult to focus on the positives. It can be helpful to try and find even just one positive thing that has happened; however small that thing is, it can help you start to turn the tide on only seeing the negative.
We all like to think we are in control but situations like this show us we can have decisions made for us. The only process we can really control is how we respond and how we make subsequent decisions. What really matters to you right now? Don’t focus on what you cannot do, think of what you are able to achieve.
When you fixate on the problems that you are facing, you create and prolong negative emotions and stress. Instead, focus on what you can do, despite uncertainty, to better your situation.
The practice of being in the moment with your breathing trains your brain to focus solely on the task at hand and quietens distracting thoughts. Think about how it feels to breathe in and out. You may be surprised about how calm you feel afterwards.